Life in NY

We are adjusting to our new place in NY, but we all definitely miss TN!!  I would have to say that TN is probably at the top of my list of favorite places we have lived.  We loved Alaska, too, but for some reason I really connected with TN (by the way, still claim SC as my home though).  I think maybe I enjoyed TN so much more than other places because we lived there for the longest, bought a house there (that we have rented out now and they better be taking care of it), Josh was physically there with us the longest (deployed for 12 months and gone just a few random months - nothing compared to his time gone in AK) and we have SO many sweet memories of Josiah there.  I really struggled leaving TN...I cried my eyes out when we pulled out of our driveway for the last time and left that amazing town!  We have so many friends still there and hope to get back there someday...if not to live, we will surely visit.  I also got to be reunited with one of my closets friends, Pam, when they got stationed there a year after us.  That was a blast having our kids together for 2 years and to watch them develop great relationships.  I will always cherish TN for so many reasons.  

We have been in NY for about 7 or 8 weeks (not really sure) and we are getting into a routine now.  I feel like getting settled here has taken us longer than any other place we have lived.  It could be because we have never moved with a 3 year old before!  Ha ha...he has done great, but you can't just tell a 3 year old to go play by himself everyday while you unpack!  It also could be from going down 800 sq. feet and trying to organize a smaller place to live in.  Regardless of the reason, we are getting there.  Just a few more things on the walls and organize the guest room before my parents visit in July.  It shouldn't take long.  

I have to say that I did not like it here when we first arrived.  The weather was terrible (after leaving a warm and sunny TN) and I was probably a little hormonal and tired from being pregnant at the time.  It was a hard adjustment for me and less than two weeks after we arrived we found out I was not carrying a healthy baby again.  But I am happy to say that things are much better!  The weather is beautiful now and we have gotten out to explore the area.  We bought a family pass to the zoo and have gone there twice (the pass has already paid for itself - it was cheap).  It is so fun to see Josiah get excited about the animals and he is so smart!!  We want to encourage his learning and the zoo is different each time you go.  The animals are doing different things and he loves it!  It will be fun for us to go as a family or, like today, go while Josh is at school.  We've also gone to the local library a few times...although, I have to say it is nothing in comparison to the Clarksville Library for sure!!  He still enjoys checking out new books and playing the computer games there.  

Apartment living has been totally fine.  We were both apprehensive at first after living in a home with a yard and our own space for so long.  I am actually shocked at how many families with multiple children live in apartments!!!  We were told that the taxes on homes here is so high that people just can't afford it (which is why we couldn't find a rental home in our price range).  Our neighbors are all great (never loud or annoying) and taking the dogs out each time and walking them hasn't been bad at all!!  We share the responsibility and it helps that Josiah loves to walk Sequoia (even after she pulled him down). Our new routine, since Josh started school, is that after dinner we do a family walk.  Each time we walk around the apartments is about a mile and we do it at least 3 times a day.  We have a lot of parks, all within walking distance and soon we will be able to enjoy the pools as well!  I hope to teach Josiah how to swim this summer. We will see.  I am still praying that once Josh's school load gets heavier he will be able to study ok in our place!  If anything, Josiah and I will just have to go out and let Josh study, or if he is studying after his bedtime, I will read or finish the scrap books I have been needing to complete.  (or maybe I will blog more :)

So, we are getting used to it here and enjoying the family time we have been able to have most!!!!  Tomorrow we get to go to a picnic (at our favorite place...Onondaga Lake) with Josh's Grad School program people.  We hope to meet some other families and get to know some new people (as well as see the few people we know from Ft. Campbell).  Thank you to those of you who have prayed for us during our move and the during the time of our loss!  We are hoping for some answers in that area, but still completely trusting the Lord with it all and we have faith in Him that His will is perfect.  

Mother's Day...Bitter Sweet

Mother's Day...a day where we honor our Mother's for their hard work and dedication to us and I am very grateful for the mother that the Lord blessed me with.  She has always been supportive, encouraging, loving and strong and I hope to be half as good of a mother as her!!!   Mother's Day is also a day where, when you become a mother you reflect on your time being a mother and you think about all of the memories you have with your child or children.  You think about the things that have made you grow stronger and wiser and for me, I thank the Lord for each one of those times.

For us, this Mother's Day was going to be something a little more special!!  It was going to be the day that we told our family and friends that we would be welcoming a baby to our family in December!  We were so excited at the possibility of having another baby and grateful to the Lord to allow us to have another child!  Being a parent is one of the best gifts we have ever been given and we would love more than anything to be able to do it all over again and to bless Josiah with the little brother or sister he has been asking for!  Josh and I found out the week we were getting ready to pack up for our move to NY that we were pregnant!  As most of you know we have been trying for a while now and got pregnant twice in 2011, but unfortunately the babies did not make it.  We were so excited to see the positive test and immediately called my doctor for some blood work in order to be monitored closely.  We allowed ourselves to get a little more excited when the doctor told us the blood work looked very promising...better than the last two pregnancies (and I have been on medication this time to help my levels)!

We continued with our moving plans to NY and I took it easier than usual.  Once arriving and getting an address, we quickly started working on getting established with a doctor here in order to be referred to a OBGYN in our area.  Our appointment was set for May 4th (3 days after my birthday and 9 days before Mother's Day).  What a great gift hearing our baby's 8 week old heartbeat for the first time.  Needless to say we were both nervous and excited for our appointment.  Josh stayed with Josiah in the waiting room until it was time for the ultrasound.  Once the doctor was ready we had them come in a join us.  Almost immediately I saw what the doctor saw...when you have been in this position two times before you kind of know what you are looking for.  What we were praying and hoping for was not there.  The doctor was very nice and just said "How do I even begin to tell you what is going on here with all that you have been through already?"  I then said, you don't have to....I see what I see.  He sent us over to a better machine where the ultrasound tech confirmed what we already knew.  Another pregnancy was going to become a loss.  Heartbreak...no other word for it.  Not only that, but we had just moved to a place where no one knew us, the doctors didn't even have my medical records yet to know what we have done in the past and we were hours away from any family.  Sadly, after talking with the doctor and nurse I was scheduled for surgery for Thursday, May 10th.  We were both shocked to say the least....there were no signs showing there to be anything wrong!  I had even begun to have symptoms of being pregnant...which sounds weird to say I was excited to be nauseated, but I was.  For a third time in 13 months we were loosing another baby without knowing the reason why.

We had some planning to do for surgery day and luckily the hospital was nice enough to schedule it a little later rather than me having to be there at 6:15am and it took 30 minutes to get there.  I wanted to make the day as normal as possible for Josiah so he didn't really know what was going on.  Since we don't know anyone here yet and don't have any family here, I felt more comfortable knowing that Josh had Josiah and I knew I would be ok if Josiah and Josh were taken care of.  They took me in and made sure they knew where I was and the doctor had his number to call when I was done and then the nurse would call when I could go home.  Not that I want to ever go through something like this again, I will say that the Lord had the entire day in His control...of course.  I was blessed with an amazing nurse named Barbara who I will always remember!  She definitely took care of me and I never felt alone.  I was able to text with Josh letting him know what was going on until I was taken up for the surgery.  I felt at peace knowing Josiah was with Josh and they were having fun together.  I never wanted Josiah to know what was going on and I think we were successful in that plan.  My nurse was scheduled to get off at 2:00 and it was after 2:00 when I got to a room after surgery.  She was sweet enough to wait on me and came in to talk to me for a little while.  We had a great conversation and I know for a fact that the Lord had her as my nurse for that day!!!!  I am grateful for that "divine appointment."

So here we are on Mother's Day...our little boy taking his afternoon nap and I am sitting next to the man of my dreams...my rock here on earth.  Physically I feel totally fine...emotionally I am working on it.  I know the Lord never gives us more than we can handle and I know His plan and will is perfect...even if we never understand why certain things happen!  Each miscarriage seems a little harder to swallow, but I know in my heart the Lord is preparing us for something and if I can be there as a support for someone else who goes through this I will!!!!

I will say that I am forever grateful for the child we do have!!  He truly is a blessing!!!!  He lights up our life everyday...full of energy and love!  This morning he came running into our room and said "Mother's Happy Day, Mommy!!!"  How cute...and then when he gave me a card from him, he said "I drew a snake on it, Mommy!!"  Such a boy!  I will cherish every single moment with him and never take it for granted...and I will also always remember the three other children who are in Heaven now...and if they are anything like Josiah I am sure they are keeping God entertained!  As sad as the past week has been, I am happy knowing that I am blessed with Josh and Josiah and wouldn't ask for my life to be any other way!!  Josh truly knows how to be a man of God...a man who shows his wife Christ's love each day!  He has been such an encouragement to me in so many ways...although we don't have any answers as to why this is happening, we still have each other and our precious son, Josiah!

Today I will be giving Josiah extra hugs and I love you's!

This picture was taken at the Putt Putt place tonight.  It was Josiah's choice to take me to play putt putt...he has been asking us for weeks to go!!!  We had a blast!

Memories

Well, here we are again, getting ready to take on another move, a new city/state (kind of...we lived in Syracuse 9 years ago, so it isn't completely new), packing, unpacking and adjusting.  I really don't mind moving...it helps make you clean out closets, purge and have a garage sale (which I do all of those things often anyway...I HATE CLUTTER).  This move is a little different being that we own our house here and Josiah will experience his first move that he has friends he will have to part from (he was only 9 weeks old when we moved here).  He loves his little friends and asks daily (more like 10 times a day) who can come over to play, if we can go to someone else's house or if we can meet someone at the park!  Poor child is majorly going to miss his little friends and I will too!!!  I love all of the children he has developed relationships with (and I love their mommies too).  This will be a tough place to leave!  We love it here...and most of why we love it is the people we know and love.  Ironically, more than half of those friends are moving as well at some point in the near future.  Regardless if our friends are Clarksville residence of life or friends we have had the privilege of spending Army life with we will miss each and every one of them!!!

Tonight I spent some time putting Josiah's old clothes in space saver bags (and by the way, they actually work).  We are trying to cut our rubbermaid storage in half because we are downsizing a lot to move to NY, but I can't bring myself to get rid of his baby/toddler clothes.  I hope that we use them again someday on another sweet and precious boy (maybe Jeremiah or Titus or whatever other name we love).  As I was going through his newborn clothes I had so many memories go through my mind (and some were spoken to Josh as he is collecting his Army gear to turn into Ft. Campbell).  I must have said 100 times while doing this "Man, I honestly cannot remember Josiah EVER being that SMALL."  or "How did Josiah ever fit into this?"  I loved the outfit we brought him home from the hospital in!!  So cute!  I just put it up to my nose hoping to smell the sweet baby we were (and still are) blessed to have.   They just smelled like laundry detergent, but the memory of him in those clothes are still very strong in my head and heart!!!!!!!  I found tiny, tiny little socks - I am not sure they ever fit his chunky monkey feet, but we put them on him anyway.  I found sweet little hats and the swaddle blanket we have pictures of him in at the hospital.  All of those precious little nightgowns that he wore those first few weeks and many, many more cute outfits that made him even cuter than he was.  I am so glad to have those memories in my heart still after 3 and a half years.  (I am getting teary eyed just thinking about it).  Josiah has grown into such an amazing little boy!!  A boy that Josh and I were just talking about tonight...how he has become so silly!!  He does the silliest things that sometimes drive us nuts, but always makes us laugh!!  Like tonight in the car, I was telling Josh how he asks questions all day long.  He wants an itinerary the moment he wakes up of what we are doing that day...and then before going to bed he wants one of what the next day will bring "after I eat breakfast...what are we going to do?"  So, I was telling Josh all day long he asks things like that (I am not complaining, because I love having conversations with him)...I was giving an example like "what are we going to eat?" From the back seat, Josiah says "Mommy, we already ate dinner!!"  LOL.  I had no clue he was even listening to me...Josh and I just cracked up!!!

So, although I am kind of sick of going through our house and reorganizing before the packers come (and if you are a military family you know that it doesn't matter what you do the movers are still going to pack it in a disorganized fashion and you will end up redoing all of it on the other end of the move), I have really enjoyed going through his things especially and reliving his little life!!!  I love remembering him in those clothes and shoes...memories of things we did while he had a particular outfit on.  I hope to never forget those memories!!  We are blessed to have him...and as the time goes on that we only have him, it makes me even more grateful for his little life!!!  It makes me realize just how miraculous a baby/child is!!!  I have hope and faith that he won't be our only child, but if he is the LORD BLESSED US WITH HIM AND THAT IS MORE THAN WE EVEN DESERVE!!!  I can promise you one thing....there isn't a day that goes by that I don't thank the Lord for him and Josh being in my life!!!!!!!

My "WHY"

So, as many of you have probably read on my facebook page...I have joined Thirty-One.  I am super excited about this new little "business" in my life.  After talking with Summer (my team director), and when I say talking to...I mean I probably drove her crazy with all of my questions before officially signing up.  I wanted to make sure I was doing the right thing and I am a planner...probably too much of a planner!  I have prayed about it, researched it, talked with others who either have done it or who have purchased their products in the past, and I have probably driven Josh crazy by talking about all of the things on my mind about it.  He is the best husband though...he listened to my fears about failing at it, talked to me about my reasons for wanting to do it and just encouraged me along the way without making the decision for me...I am married to a wonderful man!!!
Let me first start by saying, I never would have imagined I would sign up for this (or any other consultant position).  I just would have always made the excuse that I don't love talking in front of people or that I didn't have the time.  I think I have come to a point in my life that I need something like this.  I LOVE my life!!  I am a very BLESSED woman.....way more blessed than I deserve to be!  I have done a lot of reflecting on my life lately...the person I have become.  As many of you know, Josh and I experienced two miscarriages in 2011.  They were harder on me than I would have ever imagined a miscarriage could be!  I have learned that you don't take a life for granted...and I am forever grateful for the Lord blessing us with Josiah 3 years ago!  I realize now that getting pregnant and keeping a pregnancy isn't as easy for some...even though it was easy the first time...it hasn't been since.  I haven't been dwelling over it, but it is something I think about often!!!  I am grateful to the Lord for these times because I have definitely grown as a person and I pray that it has made me a better wife and mother.  I know that I can sympathize so much more now with those that experience loss!!!
The Thirty-One company is a Christian based business...that I love first of all!  It is based on the Proverbs 31 wife...and I have read that chapter in Proverbs so many times and think to myself.. "wow, I have a long way to go to be a Proverbs 31 woman!"  I feel as though if you don't think that about yourself maybe you have some more examining to do!  I don't look at that chapter and think.."Man, I will never live up to that."  Instead, I think..."wow...thank you, Lord, for giving me a guideline written right there in the Bible on how to be a wife and a mother."  So, in my daily life that is what my goal is...to be a woman/wife/mother like the one found in Proverbs.  My relationship with the Lord comes first and then Josh and Josiah!!!  I will never be the wife and mother that I am called to be if I don't put the Lord first...but then I will also never be the wife and mother I am supposed to be if I don't take care of myself as well!!  This is my WHY...Thirty-One wants to know your "Why Story."  Why would you want to be apart of this company...I want to do it because I feel like right now in my life I need something for me.  That sounds completely selfish and I am not meaning it in a selfish way at all!!  I feel like maybe I need a way of getting my mind off of the losses we experienced last year (not to forget about them completely), but maybe to be able to link up and start relationships with other mothers who have gone through similar situations.  Maybe I can be an encouragement to them and them to me!  Another reason is because I think it is important for Josh and Josiah to have father/son time.  Because I stay at home with him, Josh is very rarely alone with him.  It just works out that way...Josh works long days and when he gets home we have our normal night schedule of dinner, bath and bed all within an hour or 2 of him getting home.  Then on the weekends, we love doing things as a family, so they rarely get one on one time...and I know how important that is for them (especially now that Josiah is getting older...he craves and longs for man time with his daddy).  With me leading a party a couple of times a month he will get that time...without me (the hovering mom, telling them to be gentle while wrestling...lol).  Also, with moving to NY it will give me a great opportunity to meet other woman and make growing relationships with people that I may not have met without Thirty-One.  Josh will be going to school there, so we both feel as though this would be the perfect time to start...he will have more of a set schedule with classes so I can plan parties when it is most convenient for our family (versus being stressed out making sure he would be home on time for me to leave - which would be the case if he weren't in school).  Josh has been 100% supportive in this and I love him for it, because I know for a fact that if he didn't think it was something I should do, he would tell me!!!  He is awesome.
These are just a few reasons we decided it would be a great opportunity to join Thirty-One...and what woman doesn't love a great, new bag?  I know I do!!  I have always loved bags!!!

The Lord's Calling

Have you ever felt like the Lord is really trying to teach you something?  Have you felt Him clearly speak to you about something in your life?  It is the neatest thing in the world to know it is the Lord speaking to you...urging you to do something, speak to someone or help someone.  Whatever it is, it can also be a bit scary as well.

This week I have been reading the "Sermon on the Mount" (Matthew 5, 6 and 7) and the Lord has very much convicted me about some things.  He has used that scripture in a powerful way in my life this week.  Isn't it crazy how you could have read a verse or passage of scripture before and it not really speak to you and then you read it at a different time in your life and it hits you in the face?  I love it...but I am not going to lie that it can be scary.  Since starting my reading on Monday and continuing it throughout the week and also attending THRIVE with the women from our church the Lord has made something very clear to me.  It is like he is using different things to work in this one area of my life/heart.  Seriously....He has even used Josiah talking about something that he has never even mentioned to me in the past to get me to realize that yes, in fact it is the Lord's calling.  I experienced something in Walmart today and immediately called Josh when I got to the car to tell him what happened.  He and I both agree that it is clearly the Lord...teaching me and maturing me in this area of my life.  Part of me is scared but my heart KNOWS without a doubt it is God.  I am beyond grateful to have a husband who loves me, listens to me, guides/leads me and encourages me!!!  Although he is not physically here with us right now due to work, I am so grateful he was able to talk through some things with me this morning and help me sort out these emotions and feelings in my heart...and then the Walmart thing happened and I was thinking to myself "OK GOD...I HEAR YOU!"  What can I say...I am a little stubborn and need to be coaxed for certain things...I need to make sure it isn't my mind playing tricks on me...that it is God and He knows I need that.  Thankful for a Lord who knows me, knows my insecurities and will protect me when I feel vulnerable.  (Maybe when I obey the Lord's tugging on my heart about this my killer headache will go away. just kidding)

Shady Patio Guy

I am writing this to vent my frustrations about doing business with a Shady Guy...who owned Nature's Best Landscaping...so if you live in the Clarksville, TN area DO NOT use him.   Let me make it clear that Josh and I are not the type of people to take someone to court.  Neither one of us have ever done it and I hope to never do it again!  Not that our court situation has been a horrible experience, but that I know that we have learned on doing background checks, etc on someone we want to hire to do work at or on our home!  Anyone we ever hire in the future better be ready for me to ask them a million questions before giving them our business or money.  I have learned my lesson for sure.

Last March we hired a guy to dig up under our deck and place weed control down with rocks to help with landscaping and rabbits.  We were finding dead bunnies under our deck daily (sometimes 5 a day) and that does not go well with me or our dogs.  Our dogs were playing with them and the last straw was when I was in the back with our 2 year old at the time playing when a dead bunny appeared.  I screamed and in turn scared Josiah to death.  Originally we hired Don to do the under part of the deck.  Well, he came up with this plan (an idea we had been thinking about doing for a while).  We have an area in our back yard that would be great for a patio and the people who owned the house before us just put some flag stones down and allowed the grass to grow in between.  We had been wanting to concrete it in for a while and make it more useful.  Well, Don said he could do it.  Very long story short, he did a shady job using brick mortar instead of concrete...the foundation moves under your feet...our 40lb dog's foot went through it after it was completed and you can pick up the flag stones because they are not cemented in.  It was overall the worst job I have ever seen.  He was supposed to dig up the foundation, make it level and take care of the grass and weeds so that they would be gone forever.  Almost immediately we had grass growing up through the concrete!!  It is done so terribly that our 2 year old (now 3 year old) could pick up the concrete.  Surely that is not supposed to be able to be done...let alone by a toddler.

After talking with some other workers in that field of work and having them come out to give us an estimate of fixing it, we decided to take Don to small claims court without a lawyer.  We had pictures, phone records of times that he never called us back, his contract stating he would complete the job, etc.  we had our act together.  (by the way, the day he "finished" the job he said he would be back to check on the foundation that weekend to make sure it was drying correctly...did he ever come?  NOPE...did he return any of our phone calls?  NO....did he cash our check immediately?...YES!  We pay our court fees (taking him to court originally was to make sure he didn't do this to someone else in town) and show up to represent ourselves because we didn't want to pay for a lawyer.  Don never shows, but had hired a lawyer the day before our court date.  The lawyer he hired knew nothing of the situation and came in saying that they only thing Don told him was that he would come back to our property and fix it.  NO WAY...are you kidding me?  We gave you more than an opportunity to fix what you had done wrong and we didn't want him back in our yard.  His "lawyer" saw our pictures, our phone records and all that we had come prepared with and said "clearly, I am representing the wrong party here."  lol  So, we then had to set a court date for a trial that involved us needing a lawyer.  We got an excellent lawyer and our court date came.  Guess what?  Shady Don did't show up and didn't have a lawyer to represent him either.  The judge obviously found us to be correct in our story and in the state of TN you can get extra for Lying and Deceptive Work.  We didn't want more..in fact what the judge came to is far more than we would ever expect someone to pay.  We just want it fixed..so we want the amount of money it would take to fix it.  We aren't doing this to make money on the guy.  We aren't trying to screw him over - we just want it made right.

I just want it over with...I feel stressed because we are moving soon and so it has to be fixed and that costs money.  When the guy claims to have nothing, I feel bad for saying this, but I don't believe him!  Maybe he is having a hard time in life, and I am sorry for that, but he fed me so many stories during his job that I just want him to pay us what we deserve.  I have definitely learned from this...and this will be a great example to use for Josiah (and/or future children we have) to teach that life just isn't fair sometimes.  Guess I am going to use my anger toward Good Ole Don on the patio when Josh and I are the ones ripping it up with sledge hammers!!!

(I have even more pictures of us being able to lift the flag stones out of the middle and the giant hole in the middle of it, but they are on a different computer that isn't working.)

Christmas at our House

I honestly can't believe that Christmas is just two short days away!!  We are super excited that my parents (aka Grammie and Poppy) are here (arrived at 2am this morning and got up with smiling faces to see their only grandchild....and Josiah was very happy to see them!).  I have been baking like crazy.  Not really sure why, except the fact that I love to bake and share goodies with friends and family.  This week I have made mint chocolate chip cookies, snicker doodles, mint crisps, Christmas sugar cookies, brownies and white chocolate snack mix.  I currently have a peppermint pound cake in the oven and will make an apple pie later.  Then I will be done.  I delivered some treats to neighbors and friends yesterday and today.  It is fun for me to share sweets with others!!

Since the Christmas season started our family of three has enjoyed some fun memories.  We have driven around to see Christmas lights (which we plan to do again with my parents tonight), gone downtown to walk the River Lights, went to the drive thru Nativity, watched Christmas movies, made Advent crafts, listened to LOTS of Christmas music and done a little shopping.  I will have to say that Christmas this year is even more fun.  Josiah knows more about it and I love seeing his face light up at the different things he experiences.  He still isn't completely a fan of Santa and will only wave from a distance.  We aren't pushing it because I don't want to scare our child to death and let's face it Christmas is definitely not all about Santa.  Every morning Josiah asks for me to put music on after breakfast and he knows exactly what song he wants to hear.  His favorite Christmas song is Jessica Simpson's version of "Let It Snow."  The minute it comes on he starts dancing!!  It is cute.  For me, at Christmas I love to give people baked goods.  It is something about the time and energy I put into making some special treats to share.  Josiah has really enjoyed baking with me this year as well!  He is really at a fun age!  I've said before that I am not a huge shopper.  We didn't buy much this year (as I am sure a lot of people are in the same boat).  With our impending move and the disaster we have on our patio that still needs to be fixed, we tried to keep things simple.  We will see how simple my sweet husband kept things since his love language is gift giving.  I love that he loves to give to others and sometimes I wish I had the same love language.  My love language is quality time and acts of service.  I love doing things for people to help them and I enjoy just spending time with others.  I am so grateful that Josh and I know each other's love languages!!  Yesterday and today I have started to feel bad that I may not have gotten him enough for Christmas or even gotten him the "perfect" gift.  I made him his favorite cookies :)  It is too late now, because I am not going out today to get anything else.  I am more of a worrier about the bank account than he is and don't want to over spend on Christmas gifts.  I feel like that can be super easy to do once you start seeing other things that you would want to get someone.  I have always kind of felt like I am not a very good gift giver...wish I was better, but glad I married someone who is.  We definitely balance each other out!!!!  He finds great gifts and then we talk about whether or not we should spend the money on them.  This year with him in Pathfinder School I ended up having to do most of the shopping on my own...so the few things we bought I hope people like them!!!  Josiah's Santa gifts are an Easel (which I am super excited about because I know he will love it...he has recently really started enjoying coloring and painting so I know it will be fun for him).  Maybe it is my inner teacher, but I am hoping we will have short "school" sessions at home with it!  We also got him the Mickey Mouse Drum he has been wanting.  He saw it one day in Walgreens and that is all he talks about when people ask him what he wants from Santa...luckily it was only $9.99 and the day I went they were buy one toy get one free so I picked out a blue (his favorite color) car for him as well.  My parents got him (from Santa) a tool set and a big dump truck which he will absolutely LOVE!!  I guess maybe I feel like I never want to spoil him too much on Christmas and have him not be appreciative of what he receives..and also forget what Christmas is truly about.  The BIRTH OF JESUS CHRIST!!

Anyway, with that said our family is ready for Christmas.  No more shopping - just enjoying our time together!  I refuse to go out to the stores with the crazy shoppers!  We are just enjoying our time at home...tonight we are having Chicken Taco Soup, tomorrow (Christmas Eve) I am making Ham with all of the sides before we go to church for our Christmas Eve service and then dessert afterward (Peppermint Cake, Apple Pie and all of the cookies).  On Christmas day, I stick with Josh's family tradition and make Italian. We will have salad, chicken parm, spaghetti, asparagus, green beans and bread.  Just writing this makes me feel full.  I just that is what the season is...eating yummy food!!!

I am beyond grateful to have my husband home again this year for Christmas - that to me is the best gift!!  There are so many soldiers away from their families this year, so please keep the soldiers and family members left at home in your prayers!!!  We hope and pray that everyone has a wonderful Christmas!!!  We sure wish we could be with everyone in our family, but knowing that is impossible, we will just send our love to you all!!!!  Merry Christmas!!!!!!!